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*exuallyEmbarrassed
writes:I have an embarrassing question and cold really use some helpFor as long as I can remember I have been natural wet down there. To the point in high school I had to wear panty liners because my panties would get so wet. I have always had an extreme high sex drive and sexual desire. My first bf and I started having sex when I was 16. When I was 18 I started masterbating a few times a weeks and it slowly grew to every day. I have an amazing bf and we have a great sex life but I'm embarrassed about how wet I get when we have sex, he has told em many times he likes it but I'm afraid he is just saying that so I don't feel bad. I always heard guys saying they liked tight girls. We usually have to put. Towel or blanket under us if we have sex because if not we have to change the sheets. Do you think he still enjoys it if I'm this wet? We have a great sex life but I still find myself masterbating, the last few months its been insane. I can't do simple task because I feel the urge to get off so strongly. It's not even a full orgasm that my body needs to feel normal again it's weird. But it has gotten to the lint where I have had to go to the bathroom at work touch myself just so I could get through the rest of my shift. I feel like there is something wrong with me, why does my body feel like this even after have sex regularly?Yesterday I masterBates three times and had three full blown organism and this morning i still woke up to wet panties and the urge to do it all over again. I want to feel normal and be able to go out and have fun with out needing to do this but I don't know how to make it stop. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2014): There is nothing wrong with you!!!
I'm sorry others have made you feel like there is.
I'm a woman who masturbates every day (sometimes multiple times) and I don't think it's an issue. Sometimes I masturbate at work…who cares? It takes me four minutes and I always feel better and more able to focus afterwards :)
Have you read the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility"? Your cervical/vaginal fluid changes through your cycle…days 8-18 (roughly) will be the "wettest" because your ovaries are secreting more estrogen in preparation for ovulation. This is probably the cause of some of the "wetness" you are experiencing. Arousal fluid will also make you wet, but that's not the only cause!!
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reader, RevMick  +, writes (13 May 2014):
 Hi sexuallyembarrassed,
Sources have proven that masturbating is actually good for your body, it relieves stress, it eases menstrual cramps and it can help with insomnia.
If it is interfering with your work life then I would see a GP or your doctor. They can talk you through any medical, hormonal etc conditions that could be causing it.
I don't think your boyfriend truly minds you getting wet, the sex sounds still enjoyable for both of you. He is still getting the friction he needs presumably to get off also.
It could be that, this is just natural for you. Everyone is different.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (13 May 2014):
You need to work on your self control a little. While the image of you masturbating at work is pretty hot, it's generally not a good idea.
I'm sure this is a phase that you will grow out of within a couple of years.
Regarding wetness. It's a turn on for me but there is a such thing as too much lube. There's a little less sensation, but obviously sex is still very enjoyable for the two of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2014): I think you need to go for some psychological help, its definitely some kind of obsessive compulsive disorder, as well as a medical condition. I think your body has adapted it as a preffered stress relief outlet but excess of everything is bad so this definitely needs to be treated with an expert opinion.
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