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It makes me nervous for him to touch me ...i dunno if I should let him...?

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Question - (24 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ptonGirl writes:

me and my boyfriend Fraser are always together at school and we always hug and stuff but he always has his arm around me and touches my arse and touches my tits and tickles my arse too. but i feel nervous when he does it. it may be natural for him to do it but i dunno if i should let him do it or what to do. i love him and i don`t want to lose him :(

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A female reader, athenas United States +, writes (24 February 2010):

if it bothers you, you should let him know and he should respect that desiscion but its normal if your just nervous cus your feeling attracted to him my best answer wouold b anilize exactly what your feeling

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010):

Part of the problem is that Fraser was a TV show back in the 1990's. Fraser was a character on TV and sorry to say, he isn't real. These fantasies you have been having are a sign that you are unbalanced. Seek psychiatric help at once. Perhaps try calling Dr. Fraser Crane.

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A female reader, Jezebella United States +, writes (24 February 2010):

i think you may need to sit down and think about why him touching you makes you nervous.is it because your afraid it may lead to other things?because there other people around when he does it?as we grow into maturity we have to decide things about our bodies that nobody else can answer for us.you are still young but regardless the decison is still yours.so should u let him touch you if it makes you nervous?i dont know thats your decision to make but you should also speak to him about this so he knows what you are and arent comfortable with.hope i helped:)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2010):

If it makes you feel nervous, it means that you're not really ready for it all. So be brave and gently tell him that though you love him, you don't feel comfortable with him touching you in those areas. If he dumps you just because of that, then he's not worth your time anyway.

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