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writes:I'm so down and unhappy. My fiance left me 3 weeks ago because he said he didn't love me anymore and our home is on the market already. We were due to get married next year! Yes we argued quite alot before he left, but doesn't everyone. We had 5 great years together and now he has thrown it all up in the air cause he says he is unhappy, he has no permanant work, he says he worries about money and paying the mortgage and that because of the arguing he fell out of love with me although i have always been very supportive. the thing is i thought we were going to spend the rest of our lives together and i still love him so much, i feel that i will never get over him as he was my perfect man, i know its early days but my whole world has been shattered, ive lost him, my home ( as we have to sell) and everything i ever wanted. I feel so low and cry every day, will this ever stop and will i ever stop loving him and wanting him to come home. It feels like each day gets worse not better and i feel so lost. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): It has only been three weeks dont be so hard on yourself. Are you sure that the both of you cannot work this out together. You were due to get married and then the relationship collapsed at the first hurdle. Maybe you just need to talk and find out how your issues can be solved. You sound like you love him very much and it sounds like he loves you too but is a little down, if not depressed due to lifes dilemas. You need to talk, talk and talk somemore. You owe each other that. Maybe try couple council together or individually. Good luck!
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reader, Truthfulrealisation +, writes (21 November 2007):
Don't let him go. He is having a hard time and may be doing things that are irrational. You will have fights, and the only way I suggest you get through them is by pretending he isn't himself.
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