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female
age
36-40,
*osephine_Sefory
writes:Hi,I have a problem... or not... I am not even sure. I have a boyfriend that is very much in love with me... And it's not the words kind of love but the one in which he actually shows me that everyday... I'm happy but i just don't feel that sparkle I used to feel before...Before him I had a relationship with a guy that wasted my time.. The problem is that guy was the first love and I think my heart still has wounds... How do I know if I'm really in love with my actual boyfriend? I'm verry happy with him... He's everything I've every wanted and still... What's wrong with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): I agree.
Clearly he means a lot to you. It is natural to question your feelings from time to time. I've been with my partner for five years and I'm still immensely in love with him. That does not mean that I don't have doubts every now and again. SOmetimes couples just seem to get stuck in routine. Spice your love life up a bit, start dating him again. Go out for meals, spend time together and you'll soon realise what it was you first saw in him.
Sometimes when you've been with someone for a while, you just start taking them for granted. You are a very lucky lady. This guy loves you and is everything your ex wasn't, for starters he seems to respect you and dote on your every need...wjhat more can a woman want?
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reader, Truthfulrealisation  +, writes (21 November 2007):
You have to move on or else you might end up ruining a good thing for no reason. Secondly you do love him, don't worrie about the sparkle, because a lot of women end up alone because they can not settle down since they think the sparkle is love. Beleive me, the sparkle comes and goes.
You answered your own question when you said - 'He's everything'
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