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I feel my husband always finds activities that do not include me! I'm bored and frustrated.

Q.   my husband spent 7 years going out every night and secretly smoking pot,now that has all stopped he spends every available moment alone upstairs playing on the computer. it just seems that he finds ant thing to do that doesn't include me,i'm so ...

A.   21 November 2007: well, when you smoke pot it makes you like that, nice to see you got him to stop but this is the damage it does. Firstly ask his friends for help, because they can help while your not there, and that way you solve this problem on several fronts. ... (read in full...)

I may be in love with a person I dated during the short time I was separated from my bf. Confused!

Q.   I am 18 and have been with my b/f for 4 and a half years. I now think im in love with someone else who i dated before when me and my b/f broke up for about a month or 2! Im really confused but dont want to hurt anyone...Help!...

A.   21 November 2007: Go back with the boyfriend and remember why you were with him in the first place. You may only 'love' the new guy because there is a fresh spark, but love isn't a spark, it runs deeper than that. DON'T CONFUSE LOVE FOR THE SPARK.... (read in full...)

It feels like each day gets worse since our break up, will this ever stop?

Q.   I'm so down and unhappy. My fiance left me 3 weeks ago because he said he didn't love me anymore and our home is on the market already. We were due to get married next year! Yes we argued quite alot before he left, but doesn't everyone. We had 5 ...

A.   21 November 2007: Don't let him go. He is having a hard time and may be doing things that are irrational. You will have fights, and the only way I suggest you get through them is by pretending he isn't himself.... (read in full...)

Am I still in love or not?

Q.   Hi, I have a problem... or not... I am not even sure. I have a boyfriend that is very much in love with me... And it's not the words kind of love but the one in which he actually shows me that everyday... I'm happy but i just don't feel that ...

A.   21 November 2007: You have to move on or else you might end up ruining a good thing for no reason. Secondly you do love him, don't worrie about the sparkle, because a lot of women end up alone because they can not settle down since they think the sparkle is love. ... (read in full...)

He cheated on her with me. Should I get into something with him?

Q.   I joined a new company and I was instantly attracted to a colleague and he seemed to be attracted to me too. At first there was alot of flirty office banter between the two of us and we didn't necessarily hide it. We had a few staff get togethers ...

A.   21 November 2007: You are in the wrong for getting involved with him in the first place, you should definatly not get involved with him... (read in full...)

He uses girls for sex. Is he doing the same with me?

Q.   To start off, I recently had a break up with my boyfriend of 2 years. In my eyes, the relationship was amazing, couple fights here and there...but all round just amazing. We both love eachother and want to be together in the future. There was noth...

A.   21 November 2007: Sounds horrible to say but he wants to enjoy his life now. The one reason why he can't stay with you is because if he does he thinks that when he is older he will regret not taking advantage of his youth. He is right in some sense, because when you ... (read in full...)

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