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Isnt being a porn star harmful to their normal lives?

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Question - (29 October 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 1 November 2010)
A male India age 36-40, *eadwalk writes:

All porn stars perform in porn movies to make money but isn't harmful to they real life? how they'll live in real life what are they daily schedule do that's also get married make they own kids if they do that how they can work in porn after getting kids if they kids or husband/wife caught them in working in porn what next? Pls answer this

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (1 November 2010):

Miamine agony auntOpps, yes, forgot to highlight the millions of people who are forced into the industry, or enter it and feel trapped and then have no way out.. Thanks Person12345.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (30 October 2010):

person12345 agony auntSome like their jobs and it's just a job, others are addicts, trafficked women, and women looking to fix previous sexual abuse. No one, not even women in the industry from what I gather, really know how many women hate it and how many are there because that's what they want.

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A male reader, deadwalk India +, writes (29 October 2010):

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deadwalk agony auntNo project nothing gab am just wonder about after marriage how they family digest of being they porn star bcuz I dunno about others of course I like open minded peoples encourage doing porn is also a job

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (29 October 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntAnd just to add to what I had said earlier, it's not as though I'm trying to pain a rosy picture. In fact a LOT of actors in the industry are users of addictive substances, have been in, or are in, exploitative relationships. Many are unable to have fulfilling relationships.

I know that some find it difficult to come to terms with life after their use-by date in the industry is past. After all, it is a short-lived career and after deducting expenses and considering that few pornstars invest wisely, not as lucrative as might be imagined.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (29 October 2010):

Miamine agony auntThanks for the link Gabrielle. :)

Yes, of course Gabrielle must be right, common sense dictates that there must be good reasons why so many people enter the porn industry and continue to work there, even when they are paid enough to be classed as millionaires.

I don't think sex work is easy, but for some people who have the right temperament and personality, it probably suits them better than working in an office or a bank.

Depends on the person and the family and friends they have to support them with their choices in life.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (29 October 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntI think you would be much better served researching this issue at websites dedicated to pornography and so on.

I don't know if it still exists, but http://www.adultdvdtalk.com would be a good place to start.

To give you some rather superficial answers based on what I know and a passing brush with the industry some years ago -

1. Whether a specific porn actor can live a reasonably happy life depends on the individual and his/her ability to handle reality. Like with life in general, the more intelligent, level-headed among them tend to be better able to seperate reality from career and live a contented life.

2. Their daily schedule depends on the amount of work they have and tends to vary widely. After all it's not a desk job. Some days will be without work, others will be long hours at the studio. Some days will be 'on location'.

3. Yes, many do get married. Some do so after leaving the industry. Others while still active. Most marry within the industry and yes, some do have children also.

4. Generally the spouse of a porn actor is aware of the career their significant other is in. Regarding children...well that's one I do not know the answer to.

What is this for? A university project?

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