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If only she knew how much I care about her......

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Question - (29 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2010)
A age 26-29, anonymous writes:

There's this girl who comes in my tutions...

We are only two people sitting on the same bed

We studied for 1 and a half year...

We were in the same school,

My parents and her family are good friends

I used to dislike her before as I was simple and even she is simple but I dint think so...until I met new people as I was new to town

We never used to talk and never used to say hi

Sometimes she used to talk for 3 seconds and I wasn't so bothered

My teacher told me about her family ...how her mom left her when she was three and when I came to know her friends as im a bit popular and the elderly girls like me

They were backbiting her

Then also she's so kind,helpful and nice, softspoken, fragile from outside but strong

As time passed I started liking her completely

Whenever I used to get ready I used to think whether she'll like me or not

Whenever she passes by me or I hear her voice or something my hearts starts beating so hard that I thnk its gonna pop out

She 3 years older to me

But im mature because I hang out with her age girls and girls older to her

IM extremely in love with her

She doesn't talk to me

Nor do I cuz I loose all my confidence

Her face is so innocent and she's graceful

Few days ago someone said she asked abut me...

And I know that she likes me

And I will always help her

Whenever she needs me not that she's not rich she's become popular now a days but she's still the same

Pleaseee help me like I help you all

How do I make her like me???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010):

Sweetie ~ Please, immediately discontinue beating yourself up. That you are in love is a blessing..NOW..exhale. Also, you indicated that there has been an indication that she might feel the same way about you..AND..that you essentially want to develop a friendship with her as well as advise her of your feelings regarding her, which is absolutely. So my advice is take one step at a time..baby steps. Start by greeting her with a verbal or nonverbal "Hello."..AND..as far as sharing the way you feel about her with her, there's nothing wrong with doing so although I suggest that you do so at a later date when the two of you have commenced a friendship..AND.if she informs you that she does not maintain the same feelings for you, appreciate her honesty.

I am however confused about three points you made: You indicated that she said something that wasn't true, that you helped her secretly, and that you are angry. How are these occurrences existent when there has been no communication between she and you??????

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A female reader, sweetheartx United Kingdom +, writes (30 October 2010):

well just be yourself talk to her maybe share secrets so she'll know that you trust her. Invite her round maybe you can meet up in town and go shopping or somthing, laugh at her jokes tell her somthing you like about her like "you have the most amazing sense of humor" or "your hair colour,its aubern is'nt it? its so pretty your so pretty i wish i was like you". or somthing like that.

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A female reader, marymomnwife United States +, writes (29 October 2010):

if she is asking about u then u 2 r already in the right direction to becoming friends. sometimes while bieng friends doors will open for two people to come as close to each other as possible. when u c her be friendly and talk to her. once u find that one thing that u guys share, and it will come to u 2, then the friendship will flourish. remember any relationship worth having starts with being friends.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2010):

Awww~You are truly adorable..You sooooooo remind me of someone who has my heart.

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