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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:If a man knows a woman is not attracted to them (as in she has repeated many times that she just does not like him in that way) and when she is drunk, he persists in asking her to sleep with him and argues with her reasons for not wanting to (and persists for nearly an hour to try and talk her around) is this wrong? This happened to me and I feel very angry and I just want to make sure that males don't see this as normal - that you can't keep persuading a woman to not say no. I just think if a man told me he didn't find me at all attractive, I just wouldn't try to persuade them otherwise. I would feel quite humiliated for a start. Let alone try and insist they sleep with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2011): for a man to do that, he's showing how pathetic he is if he has to pester a drunk woman to sleep with him. he should be the one feeling so humiliated if this is the only way he can get her attention.
by the way, the fact that he doesn't feel humiliated by this shows that he's really selfish and is completely focused on satisfying his needs without regard to his own dignity.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (18 November 2011):
 Don't bother projecting YOUR feelings on to men.... we are completely different animals......
AND, don't drink and hang around idjits who you KNOW are going to keep on pestering you to put out. WHY BOTHER???? There are many other young men - nice ones, in fact - that you could spend time with..... Put enough space between you and this one so that this submittal seems unnecesary....
Good luck...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 November 2011):
 NOT normal
rude
creepy and childish.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (18 November 2011):
 No, of course it's not normal, but why didn't you just turn your back and left him mid -sentence ? Why do you debate for an hour with somebody that bothers you with unwanted sexual offers ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2011): Sounds like an unhealthy, abusive, bully sexual predator that only cares about himself and has ZERO respect for a woman. No, thats not normal or healthy behaviour.
Don't even have this guy around- he is no friend.
UNTRUSTWORTHY.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (18 November 2011):
 It's normal if the man is a creep. Best thing to do is to stop talking to him. Guys like that don't give up. He's hoping one day you'll be drunk enough to say yes.
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