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writes: Qestion is simple, just gave background info, sorry if too long, but I really like this guy and want to give info that could explain us better.Should I forget about having a relationship with this guy? And here is the background...Meet him over a year ago on InternetIn person 3 and a half months ago when he came to visit me at work as a surprise.When whent out a few times and started to hang out regularly.About a month into dating ran into a weird situation where at my work another girl walked in and he freaked out, they ended up talking for over a hour and he came back and said he was dating her but was trying to avoid her since he meet me, but did admit he had hung out with her since we met and did have sex with her.I forgave him after a period of time to think and we continued to hang out regularly. He was the one who stated he wanted us to be together for awhile, and was the first to establish me as his girlfriend, BUT since then which is 2 weeks ago, we have NOt seen each other due too him and I being SO busy or things coming up... although he is WAY harder to get to see. Has so many extra activities he does and goes to see friends away alot. Now should I trust he isn't seeing other people? Should I be upset he doesn't put me before other things? Or should I gove it time to see what happens when his school is over and he has more time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2006): Sounds to me like he is a guy who is good at getting sex from ladies on the internet. He is very confident in him self to come to your place of work and supprise you like that,,,, has he done this movement before.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (27 April 2006):
 If a man wants to see you, he will make time. Given what you have written, it seems the man maybe seeing lots of ladies from the internet...seems he got caught red handed. His behaviour towards the other girl in the office should be an alarm bell for you - he freaked out, acted a bit sneaky and had been ignoring her before hand by the sounds of it. I find that watching the way people I like interact with other people is a really good 'sign' about how they will be with you. If I were you, I would treat this as a casual friendship/ fling and then you won't be hurt if he does a disappearing act, or you may be glad to see the back of him in a couple of weeks time as you don't know him that well at the moment. Approach with caution...he maybe an internet serial dater out for another thrill...
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