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writes:Does anyone think that this guy is up to something. ive being going with this guy who is 27 for the last 15 month. Never being introduced to his family, never goes to his house unless there no one there and he adds girls all the time on facebook and has now set it all to private.He is not married has no kids no exes on the scene. He still lives with his gran and we only live about a 5 minute walk away from each other. We have broke up a few times as he is quite arrogant and thinks he is superior to me in everything he does and says.He tells lies quite a lot for no reason and and makes out he is popular with people when most people cant stand him. He has very few friends and he breeds and shows pigeons with my friends gran and spends quite a lot of time at her house.The facebook issue really annoys me and I have told him that I know he talks to girls on there but he says its just like talking to someone in a bar. I am sure he flirts with other girls and makes out he is single. Does anyone else thinks I am just waiting for a fall with him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 March 2012):
 Let’s look at this:
He’s 27 (I had two children at this age so he should me mature enough to behave like an adult)
You are dating 15 months (by the time I am dating this long I knew if I wanted to spend my life with someone)
He has never introduced you to his family (so you are a dirty secret)
He keeps secrets from you and you don’t trust him (hence your comment about facebook)
HOW do you know he lives with his gran?? He’s told you right? Could be a lie…
You live 5 minutes apart and he lives with gran and you are dating over a year and yet you have not met her… BIG HUGE RED FLAGS HERE…
HE TELLS LIES…. That’s all I need to hear…
Most people can’t stand him… why do you think that is? What about him makes him such a prize for you?
I think you need to consider that at this point he’s not giving you what you want and need.
You don’t trust him….
He lies
I think it’s time for you to consider moving on sooner rather than later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2012): He sounds like one who you should let go. Not so much about facebook, but for many other reasons you have indicated in your post. In my opinion I would walk away from him fast. Good Luck
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (28 March 2012):
 You may hang on the "Facebook" issue if you wish... but I counted 4 OTHER good reasons for you to drop this character in your submittal.....
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