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Is this guy playing hard to get or is he just not interested?

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Question - (8 November 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2011)
A female New Zealand age 30-35, *haunadior writes:

I met this guy last week when we were out, we got on well and he told me he thought i was amazing. He later text me to see if i got home ok. I didnt text back until 3 days later :( just because i get shy sometimes he did text back straight after then asked if i had any plans over the weekend , I totally freaked out lol and didnt write back until sat ngt saying yeah goin out but havent heard back from him and now it been 3 days lol since i heard from him. I think he might think im playing hard to get :( or maybe he just isnt interested anymore?? what do you think. thanks for reading :)

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (9 November 2011):

N91 agony auntExactly what caring guy said. If you're not getting at least same day responses I'd take it that the girl isn't interested.

If you like him, try and organise something.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (8 November 2011):

He's not playing hard to get! He offered you his attention on a plate with those texts. I'm afraid he might well have taken your lack of an immediate response as a sign that you weren't interested. If I text a girl and she didn't reply for three days, I'd think she wasn't bothered too.

I think he was interested, but I think he moved on because you didn't text back in time.

In future, no matter how shy you get, go for it.

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