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writes:I am talking to this guy that i think is perfect but my family and friends think otherwise.Yesterday i was invited to the movies by my best friend so i decided to invite the guy that am talking to so that way we could finally meet.He said that he would go untill he found out that my friend also invited 2 other guys to go the movies.So the guy said that he didnt have enough money to go anymore so i said ok,then he said that he didnt go because the other guys were going and that he didnt want any problems with them. He said that he was really sorry for standing me up and that if i could give him a second chance to make it up to me,so i said yes.He said that since he wants to meet me so bad that he would come to my house and meet my family.My mother is always telling me that that guy is just playing games with me and that i should be careful.Do you think i think i should listen to my mom and take her advice?
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reader, Aunty Lin  +, writes (29 January 2007):
I agree with stina, give him a chance, it's ur mom's job to be highly critical and cynical.
It's better to risk somethin good happenin than to spend the rest of your life wonderin whether sumthn good cud have happened:)
So take a dp breath, break da news 2 ur parents and go for it!!!
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reader, stina +, writes (29 January 2007):
 Hi HappyBunny,
Is this the only time that he's stood you up? Because honestly he really may have been turned off by the fact that so many people were going. What kind of guy is he? Maybe he just doesn't like going places with crowds of people. Maybe he felt like it would be awkward for him because he wants to get to know *you* better before going out with you and a bunch of your friends.
I think it's saying a lot that he is willing to go to your house to see you with your family around. Honestly, I don't think this guy is playing games. It just seems like he wants to get to know you one-on-one before going out with a bunch of people he doesn't really know that well. (I would actually feel the same way.)
I think you should invite him over and get to know one another before making any judgements. (Unless he's stood you up a lot before. And in that case, I would see if he didn't want to go out because so many people were there, as well.)
Take care.
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