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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I started to talk this girl last week online. We live in the same area and have some mutual friends. We ended up talking to each other for long periods of time, eventually got her number and now we text all day and she likes me to ring her at night. We are going to meet Friday. I think its going well, although i find a few things weird. During the day when im busy in the usual routine she will text me with nothing to say really and i just get smiley faces all the time. I reply back but its gets a bit repetitive. Why would she text with nothing to say, when she clearly knows im busy. What am i supposed to do? I cant think of inventive creative texts when im in a lecture for example.Another thing is she talks about me meeting her parents, grandparents etc. Bit soon isnt it?Or am i going nuts?
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (19 January 2012):
 You need to be direct with her. Tell her "I'm busy right now, can't text. I'm working/etc." Don't text her again until you're NOT busy. Be consistent. Eventually she will stop texting you during your busy hours.
Yes, it's a little soon to talk about meeting parents. Also, be direct. Tell her that you aren't ready to meet her parents and grandparents yet because you two haven't even met yet and determined if there's any actual relationship chemistry between you two, let alone meeting parents.
You're not crazy, but she is being a little pushy and overexcited, and probably doesn't even realize it. Be gentle, be direct, and communicate your needs.
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reader, abeytahemera19 +, writes (19 January 2012):
Well as a guy you have to do the most appropriate thing and meet her parents so that way atleast they know that thier little girl isnt with some jerkoff. Some girls just have nothing else to do and repeat a pattern. Just a heads up hopefully it isnt like that when both ya'll are tryna conversate. Be careful not to rush and make sure shes aware of that too. Goodluck and be safe.
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