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Do I have any rights at work? They keep putting me on nights!

Q.   im working in an arcade, its a temp job and im on a zero hour contract but they been giving me at least 30 hrs a week. they said when i went for the job i be on days and up to 8pm sometimes which is fine but lately i been having to work nites which ...

A.   7 May 2013: You work there, they should be able to adjust to your needs not all but help ya out a bit. You cannot be fired unless you've done something against policy. I would keep pushing it with your schedule. Just a reminder though anywhere you work at will ... (read in full...)

My wife had no problem seeing my best friend naked! The casual way she acted around him, suggesting that MY underwear would look good on him, makes me very uncomfortable

Q.   I don't think there is a problem, but my wife's behavior toward my best friend seems a little weird and it bothers me. My best friend and I are close. Since I married my wife she has also become 'TXX's friend. We are all very close, and go out toge...

A.   1 February 2012: Id talk to your bestfriend about being a bit more careful next time in your house with his junk out, you said things like that are bound to happen Im sure you dont want your kids walking in on your friend changing that isnt right either. Talk to ... (read in full...)

How do I tell this gorgeous man that my green eyes that he was "mesmerized" with were because of my coloured contact lenses?

Q.   I've met this guy who is much out of my league, he is just beautiful like a chiselled greek model. The thing is he has had drop dead gorgeous girlfriends and gets such beautiful girls approaching him. Which of course makes me feel insecure about ...

A.   1 February 2012: Your hot stuff do not show a man your insecurities ever cuz afterwards some tend to think they are better than you and thats not the case. Im sure your beautiful, I'd be honest with him about it. You'll find yours and in the end looks cant make love ... (read in full...)

I feel like such an idiot for being ignored!

Q.   I'm really upset. I went on my first date with this guy on Saturday, and it seemed like it went well. We spent twelve hours together in total on Saturday !. I sent him a message on Sunday, saying that i enjoyed the date, and that i looked forward ...

A.   1 February 2012: Let him get ahold of you, he seems really confused and thats never good. That can be frustrating. I think you should open your options more and talk to various guys enjoy yourself and not stress it. You deserve the best goodluck... (read in full...)

First Valentines, what should I get her?

Q.   I'm debating what to get my girlfriend for Valentine's day. Flowers are obvious but... what else? We have only been together for a few months. We both talk about massages and how neither of us has had one. There's a place here in town tha...

A.   1 February 2012: Headlamp totally :D and what girl doesnt like a good dinner? Goodluck hope all goes well... (read in full...)

Sticky Situation pregnant and confused.

Q.   So im currently 5 months pregnant, and have been in this relationship for a little over 10 months. We certainly rushed into things real quick and not I am not only regreting the fact that we rushed it so quick but the situation im in as well. I stay ...

A.   1 February 2012: Sorry but marriage to me isnt all important he is definitely not a stranger mister anonymous. ... (read in full...)

How do I ask my gf to have sex?

Q.   So I want to have sex with my gf, and I don't know if she wants it or not. Both of us are 16, and we've been dating for a month and a half. and both of us are virgins. anyone got advice??...

A.   19 January 2012: Dont pressure her into having sex with you if she denies too. I honestly think its not the right time give it a little bit of more time.... (read in full...)

Boyfriend being childish about going down on me. Anyone else having the same issues? What did you do about it?

Q.   Ok so, its more something to rage off a bit. I've seen these topics a lot but still, I just NEED to rage it off. The point is, I've been in a very loving relationship for like 7 months now, and we're sexually very active, I have given my boyfrien...

A.   19 January 2012: He just doesnt like the sensation you cant force him either your willing to compromise so should he but he isnt so in this case your just gonna have to adjust to that and respect him for it. It is a childish thing but I mean what more can you really ... (read in full...)

Is this girls behaviour normal or am I just going nuts?

Q.   I started to talk this girl last week online. We live in the same area and have some mutual friends. We ended up talking to each other for long periods of time, eventually got her number and now we text all day and she likes me to ring her at night. ...

A.   19 January 2012: Well as a guy you have to do the most appropriate thing and meet her parents so that way atleast they know that thier little girl isnt with some jerkoff. Some girls just have nothing else to do and repeat a pattern. Just a heads up hopefully it isnt ... (read in full...)

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