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Is there anything that can make penetration less painful for me?

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Question - (6 July 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *ovee_Tiffany writes:

Hi I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 we've been in a relationship for 9months now. I haven't had sex with anyone yet but when I plan to I plan on using condoms , we've been talking about having sex before , I'm a virgin but he's not , I trust him 100% but I'm scared because he's pretty big and like when we do foreplay I get really wet but then when he trys to put it in I get scared and push him away, I want to know what can make penetration easier for me where there's less pain ? What should I do now

- I need answers please !!? "/

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2011):

Please disregard the advice about silicone-based lubes. Those make condoms ineffective. If you are using condoms use a water-based lube.

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A female reader, Lovee_Tiffany United States +, writes (7 July 2011):

Lovee_Tiffany is verified as being by the original poster of the question

But how do I stop being so scared of it ?

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A female reader, Lovee_Tiffany United States +, writes (7 July 2011):

Lovee_Tiffany is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks , ill try it

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A female reader, RedAthena United States +, writes (6 July 2011):

RedAthena agony auntTwo recommendations: One, lube for sex. Something silicone based and long lasting.

Two-DO not have sex with just condoms only. Get a backup birthcontrol. Condoms DO break sometimes.

Get the peace of mind too.

Also, He needs to take his time with you, go slowly and not try to go all in at once.

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