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writes:This boy used to like me but he stopped talking to me because me and his friend are sort of enemy's and if he talks to me he feels like he's betraying him. I've always kinda of liked him but today he got dared to hug me and I know he didn't do it willingly but I still enjoyed. Is there anything I can do to get him to talk to me again because I really miss his company? Reply to this Question
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reader, OldiesGyrl  +, writes (10 June 2011):
Don't ever go chasing someone who is being an absolute jerk to you. It sounds to me as if he doesn't have a mind of his own if he's allowing his conflict with someone else stop him from associating with you. And as for his friend, who does he think he is having told you something like that? His guardian? Please.
If I were you, I'd disregard him (and his friend), move on, and find someone who'd want to hang out with you, and will enjoy your company.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (10 June 2011):
 If he's choosing his friend over you because his friend say that he's not allowed to talk to you, then he's definately not worth your time or company.
How immature is his friend? I mean, no-one should EVER tell anyone who they can and can't talk to, absolutely ridiculous!!!
Go and find someone who will talk to/hang out with you...
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reader, mrg123 +, writes (10 June 2011):
 Its one of my favourite truisms that you *can* pretty much make people say anything you want, but you cant make them *do* anything. So, I am a little puzzled as to why you think he didnt hug you willingly, you may have sensed reluctance because of how things are with his friend.
I think the real key to this lies in you and his friend resolving your issues, which admittedly I dont know what they are. I suspect, if the feelings are mutual and this guy likes you then the friend may well be worried you will come between them and that could be the source of the problem.
Being honest, there is not alot you can actually do here beyond maybe trying to resolve the issues between you and his friend - if indeed, thats possible. Hope that helps and good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2011): I think what you should do, is talk to the guy you are 'enemys' with. Just tell him that even though you two dont like eachother, you can still be friends with the other boy. Ask him if its ok you can be friends with the boy.
You could also talk to the boy you were friends with and just let him know you miss his company, but you could say that if its too difficult you understand. But tell him that you wish you could talk more again.
I hope this helped :)
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