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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My Boyfriend cheated. We have been together for 3 and a half years an I have just moved away for college. I was gone a week and he went out got drunk and cheated on me with another girl. I broke up with him and after I calmed down a few days later I offered him a 2nd chance but said it would be hard. He then said your too far away so there is no point and told me there are other girls. That left me quite emotional. So I went out the following weekend and I kissed and danced with another guy. I told my (ex)boyfriend the next morning because I felt awful and he told me he never wanted to here from me again, that he hates me and he has no feelings for me anymore and that he was lying about being with other girls. I love him very much and I woulg give up anything for him I would even move home to be with him!!! But no matter what I say he wont listen to me he keeps saying that I did it to annoy him and hurt him but I didnt I did it because drink and emotions are not a good mix and whether its right or wrong I want to win him back. But I dont know how. How can I win him back and what can I do to make him happy again???
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reader, aunty caylie +, writes (13 October 2010):
well my advice would be to apologise and go home on a vist find out were he is and go there and just say sorry and walk away if he loves you he will follow you and if not he does not love you but acording to your story i think you have a great chance but if not have you ever thought about dating sites like match.com etc .. or speed dating
please give me feed back if you think my advice was good or bad thank you
your sensearly aunty caylie xx
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