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Is there a way I can induce lactation (without pregnancy)?

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Question - (27 May 2009) 17 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Okay.. I dont know if this sounds silly or not but is there a way to induce lactation without pregnancy?

BACK STORY

Im 18 years old with my boyfriend of 1 year 5 months. My boyfriend loves to suck my boobs and fantasizes about me being pregnant.

When we are in bed and tired and all cuddly he'll say things like 'you'd be the best mummy in the world' , 'id rub your tummy and kiss it and look after you:) '. He likes to cuddle up ad suck my boobs, sometimes i think he looks like hes pretending something is coming out lol i think its cute and the smile on his face is just so comfy and peaceful3

The other week, before we got up he did it again and he said 'if something (meaning ''milk'') came out when you had a baby could i carry on and taste it?'

I told him yes and today we think i lactated!:S

He sucks them most days and its nice and relaxing and helps me a lot to sleep after as i have trouble sleeping in summer, i was wondering if i have/ could in fact have lactated and it wasnt just his wishful thinking and if i dont do it again.. how could i?

BIT OF INFO

I'm on the pill 'Celeste' A 21 day contaceptive. (pregnancy hormones are there). He sucks them daily (daily stimulation). I wear lace bras (constant stimulation). I dont want to get pregnant till im 21 and I'M 18 :P

Thank you any help/advice or similar situations would be loved3

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010):

you can try the HCG diet...at least it worked for me...i started to try the diet, but then stopped after 2 days because i was really hungry, lol, but I took the hcg hormone, and now 4 weeks later, i'm lactating...it brought my breast milk back in, i haven't breast fed in a year...so you can try getting the pregnancy hormone, they have it in injections and drops...and if you take a pregnancy test it will show you are pregnant, but that is just the hcg from the diet. its just a suggestion...at least that is what happened to me!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010):

Why dont you just buy him a feeding bottle, that way you can feed him any time anywhere.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010):

I noticed that most of the people who 'hated' the taste of breast milk were women. When my wife was nursing our kids, sometimes her breasts would become engorged and the little hand-held pump couldn't relieve her discomfort. I volunteered to help, and at first she felt guilty about it (taking milk away from the kids?), but then she relaxed and I'd drink from her. Let me tell you, breast milk is warm and sweet, nothing at all like the puke we feed the babies in formula. Whatever the 'formula' is, it's a wonder that any baby takes a bottle! I dare anyone reading this, to drink a teaspoon of formula! You'll gag! The babies don't know better so they accept it. Please nurse your kids! They deserve the best drink on earth (and it's not Snapple!)

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A female reader, crnp0936459 United States +, writes (17 February 2010):

"You didn't produce milk. There are no pregnancy hormones in the pill, just male and female hormones. The pregnancy hormone is HCG and your body produces it when you are pregnant and only then. Breast milk is made nearing the end of the pregnancy when the baby is about to be born"

Pebbles, I am a nurse practitioner, and I assure you that induced lactation without being prgnant is a very real thing. It does take a LOT of work and a LOT of time, and probably some lifestyle changes, but it is certainly possible. Read about wet nurses, and about induced lactation, they are pretty good at explaining the general idea of induced lactation.

and as for this anonymous person;

"Its not likely that you did. Women who have been pregnant before have an easier time of inducing it without being pregnant or nursing, but you have to do some pretty drastic things to lactate otherwise."

Women who have been pregnant before do NOT necessarily have an easier time inducing lactation. In fact, it may be just as easy for a woman who has never been pregnant to induce lactation as it is for a women who has beared a child. You are correct in saying that it does take much work, and dedication to achieve induced lactation, but it IS possible!

As for the girl who posted this question, I would have to say that it is a possibility that you did lactate, but not likely. You have to stick to a rigorus schedule to produce milk. It all depends on how often he did it and for how long at each interval. Also don't rush having kids! They are a blessing, but in today's economy it is extremely difficult financially! So make sure you are financially stable so you can enjoy time with your child instead of working all hours just trying to support him/her!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009):

I also want to say breast milk is NOT disgusting. I feel people with closed minds would think that.

It is sweet in flavor, and so long as you watch your diet, or if your boyfriend notices it tastes odd one day, make sure you take whatever you ate that day that was different out of your diet.

LOTS of water....that helps you to produce as well. Tons of fluids so that your body isn't internally "dry".

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009):

I have to say, that it is a huge fetish out there. HUGE. There is actually a relationship called, ANR. Adult nursing relationship.

My husband and I are engaged in one. He nurses several times a day.

It is an amazingly phenomenal thing. We are so close, and having him nurse off of me is a connection that I cannot explain. And we have been together almost 13 years.

You can lactate without being pregnant. It takes work most of the time. If you already had hormone issues, then it might be easy.

If this is something you want to go forward with and don't want to take hormones, the herb Fenugreek (you can purchase online) is great to help with lactation. Also oatmeal. Eat it every day, the oats are good for inducing lactation. And I suggest investing in a small manual breast pump. This way in between his sucklings you can pump and help your breasts get used to the suckling and your mammories will be more likely to be responsive to producing milk.

Good luck!! [personal email address removed per site guidelines]. It can happen. It takes diligence, but I am telling you from first hand experience, how wonderful it truly is!

I love to nurse my husband.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009):

look up wet nurses, thats their job. milk w/o babies and such. i heard if you use a breast pump you could induce it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009):

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lol iv told him all your replies and he still wants to, iv said il still try but if it doesnt work he has to wait til im 21 when i want a kid lmao

I enjoy a challenge lmao and fullfilling his every fantasy/curiosity and so wel carry on lol

Il not stop him doing what hes doing though even if i cant express lol its fun lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

Breast milk really is disgusting. It's full of anitbodies and every kind of nutrient you can imagine for a healthy baby (who really don't care how bad it tastes), but yeah I got curious once in the middle of the night while feeding my son some milk that I had expressed and let me just say I won't be doing that again. And I was eating fantastically at the time because I was expressing milk.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (27 May 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntIt's gross, trust me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

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i suppose itd be down to what you eat and your tastes in such things lol

iv head food effects it in the same way lol

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (27 May 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntBreast milk tastes awful. I think once your boyfriend gets a mouthful, he'll change this fetish quick, fast, and in a hurry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

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hiya thanks for the quick replies lol

*omg we have another 'fetish' on our books lmao*

he is spoiled lmao

i know that with the constant stimulation it happens etc and it is breastmilk because i used to take hormone for different reasons and i had to goto the doctors at NINE becuase it induced it lol and my mum was panicing:P

And i like the soreness lmao niki20

i told my boyfriend id been back on here ( i was a top A.G at one time) and asked his and he was realy greatful lol

id do anything for him and plus i love the attention haha

*googles lactation fetish* x keep posting:)

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A female reader, pebble United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2009):

pebble agony auntYou didn't produce milk. There are no pregnancy hormones in the pill, just male and female hormones. The pregnancy hormone is HCG and your body produces it when you are pregnant and only then. Breast milk is made nearing the end of the pregnancy when the baby is about to be born.

If all you had to do was give them a bit of stimulation then we'd all be drowning in breast milk wouldn't we? How many women do you think wear lace bras? A lot is my guess but we're not all leaking all over the place.

It's nature. It happens when it's meant to. I'm sure there are allsorts of weird drugs you can take but really, would you want to do that just to full fill a fetish?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

Its not likely that you did. Women who have been pregnant before have an easier time of inducing it without being pregnant or nursing, but you have to do some pretty drastic things to lactate otherwise. There are drugs you can take but really shouldnt, and they say constant stimulation of the breasts help. There are also certain herbs you can take but honestly, you might do more harm than good.

There are whole websites and forums devoted to this, just google "lactation fetish" or whatever and you'll get tons of info. As long as you're game for it, and you aren't hurting yourself.

Good luck.

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (27 May 2009):

niki20 agony aunti think you can, stimulate enough were not milk but a discharge comes out. your body will not produce milk unless you are pregnant, and if you are breast feeding , trust me huni there is no way you would want your man sucking your boobs.....they begin to hurt :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

I dont think so that you can serve him with the milk...but i gotto say that he is one lucky B**** that he got a girl like you...i LOVEEEEEEEE sucking boobs but my girl does not like it so much and she just let me suck them for like 2-3 mins and then she starts to get irritated....i am left unsatisfied and sad...i dont know what should i do?

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