A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm trying to get some insight into whether the man I'm sleeping with is really into me or not. Here's a little background. 1. He is my boss. He is the mgr of an upscale gentlemen's club and I am a dancer. 2. We've been living in the same house for about a year when i am in town for work (2x/mo for 4-5 days at a time). The house belongs to the owner of the club who doesn't live there but lets employees from out of town stay there. It has been just the two of us since october, and we started sleeping together 4 months ago.3. He has been separated from his wife for about 10 months after 12 years of marriage and goes home to see his family (4 kids) for 2 days each week. 4. He is 43 and I am 33. 5. We have confided in each other about many things including his marriage, our childhoods, work, etc. (he's quite open with me), and i feel he is sincere.6. We have only physically "slept" in the same bed once (he wound up missing a meeting as a result). So we usually hang out and talk after our shift ends at 6am (crazy, i know!), watch a movie, maybe drink some wine, then have sex. He then goes to sleep in his room.7. One night, after a particularly tough night at work, he held and comforted me, and asked me to stay the night with him in his room (i opted out) after telling me he wished he had met me 12 years ago. 8. At work, especially recently, I've noticed him watching me a lot more, walking by a table I'm sitting at, and generally making his presence known. 9. He always offers to do little things for me, take me to the airport, clean the house before i come into town. I even heard him clipping his toenails the other night before coming to hang out with me.10. We have not set any ground rules, so I'm not sure if he is sleeping with anyone else. He ALWAYS wears a condom, which we are both responsible about. I have been trying to keep it light and not open up about my growing feelings, but am starting to really like him. He seems to look forward to our nights together as well and has recently been opening up more verbally (telling me how much he enjoys being with me, etc.)Think that sums it up! Thoughts anyone??? Thanks in advance for your input!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 June 2010):
I'm pretty sure you're being used.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 June 2010):
 The first thought that comes to mind is: Boy howdy does he have it made in the shade!
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