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Is the guy I have a crush on interested ? If so why doesnt he ask me out ? Is there anything I can do to help the situation ?

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Question - (20 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 March 2007)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Is this guy I have a crush on interested in me or not? if so why doesn't he ask me out??? plus what can i do to help the fracken situation...Its driving me crazy.

We have been hanging out usually once a week but not on weekends. We cook together watch tv., gone to see a movie.etc. nothing sexual. We hug when we see each other,sometimes. I feel we are really comfortable around each other and He has never asked me if I have a boyfriend and I haven't asked either. He looked at my band photo and said which one of you girls are single and I was not saying either way because I do have a boyfriend. But he lives far over 400 miles away and I am not sure what is going to happen with that. so I didn't want to blow it. he said your being pretty vague and I said well so are you and he just smiled. He calls me at least 3 times week.And he texts me on my phone and asks me to meet up with him at times. and I found out recently that he just broke up with his girlfriend 2 months ago which is when we met. We are the same age and he is my private violin teacher. He usually asks me to come over to his place for dinner every week. and we tease each other often..

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007):

What do you mean, he hasn't asked you out? Sounds to me as if you do go out with him numerous times, movies, texts you to "meet up" invites you to his place for dinner.....why don't YOU suggest going out somewhere? Dancing, concert, museum, whatever interests you? And incidentally, if you already have a bf but its long distance, and you really want to pursue your violin teacher, you'd better end it with your bf first.

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A female reader, ADELE14 United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2007):

KISS WITH HIM AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS HE WILL LOVE IT OR JUST TELL HIM THAT YOU REALLI LIKE HIM

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