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writes:[Mod Note: You are not very clear with all these 'girls' which one is actually your girlfriend. Whose boobs were you looking at? Who did you walk home? Who was talking to a friend on Facebook? Please give each girl fake names to make this easier to understand]right okay so i had prom yesterday night and i was with my girlfriend rebecca, and i arrived first with my mates. A jasmine arrived who's rebeccas friend and my mum and dad ect said all of you have a photo with the jasmine and i was stood next to jasmine in the photo. At prom towards the end of the night i was looking around and her friend charlotte kinda had her boobs on show a bit and cause i looked at them by accident when i walked rebecca my girlfriend to her house and got back home on facebook she was saying i saw you. so at first i denied it then after i admitted looking but i went on my girlfriends facebook and she said to her boy mate peter that she dident want to dance with me and if i asked she would of gone outside at prom and she was saying to peter shes been waiting for prom till she may leave me. can anyone tell me whats going on casue i know i dont like her friend and my girlfriend knows that but she says she think her mate it like a bit on the side when i love my girlfriend loads even at prom i was the only boy who got her a corsage at prom but i keep thinking she likes someone else cause she dident want to dance with me at prom and when she said it to her boy mate she put i dont want to dance with him... does that mean she wants to dance with someone esle please help me im so confused thankyou
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reader, charlton +, writes (1 July 2012):
charlton is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (30 June 2012):
Hi there. She could be slightly upset about you looking at her friend's boobs.
It's not the real reason for her considering ending it though.
Her message on Facebook saying she might end it with you, was written before the prom night, which of course was before the "boobs" incident happened.
Because your words of what she said to this other friend were - "she was saying to peter shes been waiting for prom till she may leave me".
And she has said - "May" leave me.
It doesn't say "WILL" leave me, so there's a difference.
In other words, she was considering ending it, although not entirely sure whether she would.
However, to be absolutely sure what was her intention, you really need to talk to her directly, as soon as you can.
Otherwise, you are just making assumptions.
It appears though, that ending it is at least on her mind, which is all the more reason you need to clarify the situation with her now.
Just give her a call - NOT a text message - and ask if you can see her, and that you want to talk about something.
So then will be your chance to have a heart to heart talk with her about how she feels, and also how you feel about everything.
Plus anything that is worrying her, and why she is thinking about ending it with you.
Then you can both decide what then needs to happen.
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reader, charlton +, writes (30 June 2012):
charlton is verified as being by the original poster of the question thankyou
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 June 2012):
 It sounds like your girlfriend does not want to be with you. I think it would be best if you both just went your seperate ways. It sounds like she just does not want a relationship. So what if you looked at someone's boobs I think she is just using this as an excuse. Talk to her and ask her what she wants. Also do not go on to her facebook without her permission.
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