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writes:Hi well my question is abit difficult to ask but I will give it a shot.I will start by saying I was in a relationship which I fell in love with a guy and I thought he was in love with me.He had told me he was..but shortly after living together I noticed shemale pics on his pc....then there were the calls 1 and 2am...the text msgs. He told me it was a phase he was going threw...I believed him then one night 4th of july to be exact we were to spend it together but he left after a female called him....2days later he says because we argued over that night..he cheated with a female.I left him...several months later he begs me to return.I come back..I find emails to shemales about hooking up..but his phone doesnt ring and no text msgs at any time...but all of a sudden he is going out more and he says he wants to break up one day but ask me to take him back the next..I understand he is on oxycotin and not sure if that affects him in anyway which I think is an excuse but what should I do???? I do love him and at least want to remain friends..I worry alot over him..maybe I shouldnt
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): Thank you for replying...I agree I do need to think if its even worth staying.I think Im going to just leave and be a distant friend...his family doesnt know he does pills or that he likes shemales...I believe I am being used to hide the truth and it isnt fair to me either...I was in it for love but he was obviously in it for the look to his family and friends.
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (30 October 2009):
I suspect that there are multiple chapters in this tragety.First, if you're asking if oxycotin is the cause of all this, NO... if he's addicted to Rx meds, then he's trying to fill some hole in his gut. The SheMale thing is most likely a major turn on (it's not really a fetish, guess it's a kink)- he wants to play with a penis, but want's it attached to a beautiful woman, and not a hairy guy. There appears to be a huge market for shemale hookers catering to straight men... scary.The item of most concern was your mention that "becaused the two of you argued on night" he cheated on you. - This is a LOW BLOW, where you become a scapegoat for EVERYTHING in his life that not right, and the CAUSE of his bad behavior. These are NOT relationship traits... are you SURE you want a relationship with this guy? Are you sure that he's CAPABLE of offering you a relationship?
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