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Is my online friend really starting to fall for me?

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Question - (14 April 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *v_luvs_u writes:

Well this is kind of a long sry ok i met this guy we can call him B well i met him online and we haven't met in person but we've exchanged photos and i've seen him on cam and things. we've been tlkn since sometime last year n we still are til this day ok well we started dating and i was perceiving myself as someone else and i lied to him about my age, the way i look, and my name because i really didnt trust people online i guess you cld say in some situations.

but i began to trust him so before we started the relationship i tld him the truth and we kinda began to really care about each other and he tld me that he loved me and i felt the same just not in love with him but after i lied to him he changed for awhile he forgave but didnt forget you cld say well he completely cut his feelings off for me which i dnt know how he did cause i didnt and i know he didn't.

well i got tired of trying with him so i finally tld him i accepted him as a friend but we kept talking and saying things to each other that friends shouldn't say well recently i got with my sweetheart which we are kinda having problems now but me and B have always talked like we used to nothing as stopped since i have gotten together with my baby like things got better with B and me again and recently he tld me that he loved me and i wanted him to say that to me for so long but now i don't know what to think of it cause i still do kinda feel the same but i have someone and i tld B about my sweetheart n he said he was ok with it.

but im wondering is he telling me things i wanna hear from him or is he just telln me these things now because i have a boyfriend or is he really starting to fall for me like i did for him which i still kinda am....we can meet or whatever he only lives a couple of hours away and he's sexy to me omg! i still have feelings for him and i love talking to him he's funny sarcastic goofy he's lets just say what i want right now because we have alot in common alot but there is one thing age difference which isnt really bad im about to turn 16 in july and he will b 20 in nov.

looks younger but not like a little kid either get me i dnt look my age either so i wanted to kno if u cld possibly give me some advice on this or tell me what you think!!!! i would love it thanx....

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A male reader, Smiffy Spain +, writes (14 April 2008):

Smiffy agony auntJust be very very carefull...people can be who you want them to be on the internet, when in reality the other person is completely different....if you do meet...please take a friend with you or meet in a VERY public place...

I know the age difference is not too much but just be carefull....

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