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writes:Hi guys.. I have a bit of a problem, recently my boyfriend of two years and I had an argument and I got annoyed and deleted him off Facebook. Later we made up and everything was fine. He then ok'd it for me to re update our relationship status on facebook. So when I logged on a chatbox popped up and it was from a girl whom we shall call Marie. So in this conversation Marie asked my boyfriend what he thought of cheating which luckily he thought was wrong. I'm so confused though because later in the conversation he asked her what did she think about threesomes? I just don't know what to think Help! Someone give me some kind of advice?
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reader, kittykins  +, writes (12 June 2011):
 I agree with YouWish. This Marie sounds bad news. You definitely have to discuss her with your boyfriend. Be calm when you do so, however, because this may turn out to be a misunderstanding and going at him all guns blazing will make things ten times worse. Facebook, as I've learnt, is the "devil's tool", it can cause all sort of upheavals when relationships are concerned! Make it clear that you are uncomfortable with him talking to this girl on that particular topic of conversation. Good luck:)
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (12 June 2011):
 Okay, two things. One, don't do things like delete him off Facebook unless you're really ready to not talk to him anymore. If there's a chance that it's just a spat and will blow over, don't delete. Those are like nuclear bombs in relationship and no matter what, they weaken it.
Second, this Marie is bad news. Luckily, he hasn't yet cheated, but you might want to tell him what happened. Tell him you're not interested in a threesome, and that you're even less interested in his keeping contact with Marie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2011): OOh Well why dont you bring the topic up with him, its not like you were really snooping because he gave u permission to look on his page just tell him u seen what he wrote and what he ment by that remark your completely in your rights to do so he was very ignorant to ask her that as if to imply a threesome with her. I would see this as a red flag but hey thats just me, def say it to him otherwise it will wreck your head to the point were your gonna be trying to catch him out and the trust will be lost.. good luck :)
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