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Is it right for a 21 year old guy and a 15 year old girl to be in a relationship?

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Question - (16 July 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2007)
A male , anonymous writes:

Can a 21 yr old and a 15 yr old be in a relationship? I know sex is out of the question and I'm not really bothered about that at all, it's just there's this awsum girl i know and we talk and spend most time texting and we seem to be gettin on excellent. Its really weird coz I never thought I'd ask this but now i am. My sister had a 22 yr old wen she was 15 and lasted 2 yrs, its just im confused as to what people think about the situation, and a 21yr old with a 15 yr old?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007):

im 16 and my man is 20 and we get along just fine just one think dont get caught if you have sex my man got caught sleeping with me even thow im turning 17 and got 4 months in jail so be careful and let love happen

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2006):

I am 16 years old and i find nothing wrong with a 15 year old and a 21 year old are haveing a realasonship. I mean age is just a number to me ( my opinon) so any 21 yrs old that is reading this right now if you love he/she go for it IF YOU LOVE HER and her parents say its ok! -good luck

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A female reader, rhc88 +, writes (19 July 2006):

rhc88 agony auntHi,

There is nothing particularly disastrous about the age gap apart from the sexual side.

I think you should take this quite slow, I mean she is still young in the mind and heart she can’t get into pubs or clubs while you can with your mates, and what do your mates think about this, do you get teased? You’ll have to make sure you are both comfortable with the situation (Though I’m sure she’ll be fine, I mean how popular will she be at school with the older boyfriend meeting her at the gates to carry her books home for her?)

Also, make sure her parents are all right about this; show them you will not take advantage or hurt her. You really don’t want to end up in trouble or a family feud.

Best of Luck! :-)

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A female reader, dummyduckling United Kingdom +, writes (17 July 2006):

dummyduckling agony auntpersonaly i dont find it wrong at all if you like this girl and she seems to like you alot go for it, it doesnt matter what others think of you if your together thats all that matters. you have to bear in mind that there is a leagal age gap of 5 years but hey whats one more year! hope that helped xxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2006):

No I don't think it is wrong at all. I'm in a relationship exactly like this me being the younger girl the age 14 & my b/f 21. If you have feelings for this girl and you think there is potentiol then go with what your heart is telling you not what everyone else is sayin.

From someone exaclty in your position & understands completely

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