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writes:I have posted previously here but would love a new perspective on this so I can move on.I was seeing my girl for just 2 1/2 months after we met on an internet dating site. We prob went too fast too quick, slept together v.early, met eachother's kids and also went to Paris for a weekend.I thought that I had met someone I really could consider being with forever, she really was so special to me.She had been on pills for depression on and off before and since we met and for the last few weeks she had cried when together. She put it down to the illness but she came round one night as planned and told me it was over and she "didn't feel how she thought she did about me".She had realised this after we almost had an accident that could have led to an unplanned pregnancy and she says it showed her that she didn't want that now, or ever. We were over so suddenly.Her closing lines on email after I tried to get my questions answered were that "you're truly lovely, don't change and i'm glad I met you".So hard to move on with such nice comments. Is it possible to think the person you are with is lovely and shouldn't change but you don't want to be with them anymore?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
It's totally possible. My last boyfriend, he was great. I loved him to death! I seriously would've married the kid, however the feelings just weren't there. It was really frustrating not having any chemistry with the person I cared for so much.
I know you are going to make someone so happy, so complete and totally in love with you. This wasn't that person. Sometimes the chemistry just isn't right, and even though you really want the spark to be there, it isn't.
So you're lovely. DON'T change and you'll meet someone really worthy of your attention.
Good luck, sweetness.
xx India
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