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writes:I'm in a predicament here, met a guy on a dating site we spoke for a few weeks and I was really taken with him. Anyway he suggested we meet up at some point and he seemed so nice that I panicked a bit and cooled off. I was really bowled over, silly I know. Well anyway I didn't contact him for about 2 weeks and when I actually told him the reason why I cooled off, he said he had deleted his profile, was slowing things down and hopefully would find someone closer to where he is. We live an hours drive apart so I suggested that we weren't that far away from each other. He responded that he was ok on his own for the moment, and that he wasn't going to come over for sex because I didn't deserve to be treated that way. Well,that was not what I suggested at all...so a few crossed wires I think. What should I do, contact him again or forget the whole thing...it's bugging me, because I would really like to meet up with him. Reply to this Question
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 I think you should forget him. His response that he wasn't going to come over for sex should clue you in that he is not a good person. Wires crossed or not this was not a conclusion any decent person would have.
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