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reader, shania  +, writes (11 October 2006):
 Yes of course...why would that be strange?...Your 1st marriage didn't work out so it looks like you were 2nd time lucky.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (11 October 2006):
 Of course.
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (11 October 2006):
 Of course it is possible. But to be loved is the greatest gift and trying to compete or measure it is crazy. It spoils the gift for you because you are always trying to guess. If you can't get over his past or his future...you need to make a different decision than you have.
I am a third wife...and yet I am quite secure in the fact that he loves me like no other...yet he loved each of them like no other. each love is as unique as the person...so don't waste your time comparing china to walnuts. Accept love as a gift and cherish it...for it will not grow with out the water of being treasured.
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