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Is it possible for us to go back to the happy way we were?

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Question - (22 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *weetie_pie2006 writes:

please help!does he still love me????

I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years. We have had an amazing relationship, he use to do everything for me. Although sometimes i did take things for granted and we started to argue a lot after the first year. But still he was madly in love with me. He gave me an eternity ring in february and said he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, and always talked about marriage and kids. But since may, i noticed he was going a bit distant and in the end he broke up with me because he told me i never gave him his freedom. But a month later he took me back, and stayed around mine at weekends still. When we're together hes all lovey and touchy feely with me, but he has now said he wants another break (2nd time), as he said this before just as we broke up. He still contacts me everyday txts and rings a couple of times an we get a long fine. But he doesnt tell me he loves me or misses me at all. He seems to always want to be with his friends and i feel as though he has given up on us. The thing is i am madly in love with him, and he says his feelings aren't as strong as mine. I am going on holiday with him soon, with friends aswell. Are we ever going to get back to the way we were? is it possible to fall in love again? there are so many questions and i can't get many answers from him. Please help! Caroline

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A female reader, DIE-romantic. United Kingdom +, writes (22 July 2007):

DIE-romantic. agony auntNot many relationships can go back to the way they once were, because of all the arguing and hard feelings that has once gone between you.

Some relationships turn out better than first time round, but it seems in this case that, you need to talk about whether you are both what each of you needs. And if he doesn't feel so strongly about you now, maybe it's a sign that you both need to move on?

No matter how hard it seems, a relationship wont work if there is only one putting most of the love in.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (22 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntListen babe you are both very young and rightly so he does not want to commit to you yet.

Don't put so much pressure on your relationship and just enjoy it, you should just have fun and if you are still together in a few years time then re-evaluate.

You both should have your own space and friends, and don't spend all of your time together that way you will apprieciate each other more when you do spend time together.

Take care.xx.

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