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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi allThis story is probably worthy of the Jeremy Kyle/Maury show but here goes.I had a friend last year who I helped out but were not friends now (were both gay guys btw)While we were friends, we slept together one night after he and his then boyfriend had an argument, at the time I thought he was leaving his boyfriend and he wanted to be with me as he was the one who initiated it. He got back with his boyfriend and his relationship and then our friendship gradually deteriorated thereafter. During our friendship my friend persuaded me to go for a job in a UK City and his boyfriend also relocated there. After me and my friend fell out his ex contacted a friend and asked for me and him to be friends. I was a bit concerned about it because of the cheating but his ex already knew about it as my friend had told him. Me and my friends ex get on really well, though his texts are a bit flirty but aren’t most gay men’s! He is my only gay friend in the city at the moment but I am not sure if he has any ulterior motives, infact he’s my only friend in the city as we have both moved here for the same cause if you like. My question is, do you think we can pursue a friendship considering what’s happened? I apologised to him for what happened and to my surprise he already knew so the air is clear if you like but I am worried later down the line this incident might re materialise.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 January 2010):
You and this other guy aren't friends anymore, so you can do as you wish.
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