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writes:Hi, my best friend has had sex with 3 guys and she's the same age as me. I've only gone to 3rd base, which made feel very vulnerable. So, sex scares me. Not just the pain stuff. It's being that close to someone. Also, that you can't take it back.I've had many guys say they want to have sex with me, they say I have a innocence about me which is cute, but underneath I'm sexy and naughty. I don't see myself having sex any time soon. But there is a guy that I'm in love with. He doesn't put pressure on me, but if I was to have sex I'd want him to be my first, and only.Is it normal to be this worried about sex? I don't want to loose my innocence. Though, people tell me I'll still be innocent 'cause of how I look and act, not 'cause I'm a virgin.Also is it okay to have a school girl/teacher fantasy? and enjoy getting spanked?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2011): i'm worried about sex as well, and most of my friends have gone all the way. but i think it's perfectly normal to be nervous about being that open to a person (no pun intended). it's always difficult allow people to get that personal with you. so don't worry about it. make sure you're both mentally and physically ready by your own standards, not your friend's.
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reader, slowpezz  +, writes (26 June 2011):
Yes its okay to be concerned about sex, especially your first time, you'll know when your ready, you'll want to have sex. You shouldn't let other peoples advancements pressure you into doing something your not ready for nor should you let other peoples words pressure you. Be confident in who you are and what you feel.
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reader, hunky +, writes (26 June 2011):
WEll yes this make a lot of sense! When it is your time to have a sex you will know. As i have not had sex either. So hope everything works out for you!! :)
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (26 June 2011):
yes, 100% natural!
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