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writes:is it normal that i miss 'her' more than my gf, i talk to 'her' more than my gf, i want to have sex with 'her' more than my gf? i think i'm falling in love with her. help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (6 March 2007):
 From the information you have given I take "her" to mean either an ex or someone else you have grown very fond of. Having these feelings for "her" is NOT being fair to your girlfriend so you either get "her" out of your head and continue with your girlfriend or finish things with your girlfriend and be with "her."
More information would be good if you want a more detailed answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): Eddie - we don't charge at all, or have i been missing out somewhere??
Who is her and what is this all about. Am i being too thick here, because i don't know what you are on about. More information please.
Take care
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reader, artlover  +, writes (6 March 2007):
 I think we need more information about your current relationship. She is a girlfriend that you date? The mother of your child? You live with her? From the info I do have I would say;
You are not married yet, so you are free to have new feelings and go through the process of change without all the chains of morality. however you should finish what you are in before starting something new. take your time and evaluate your relationship with your present girlfriend. If you are not in love with her and the relationship has run its course well then do what you have to and move on.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (6 March 2007):
 I think your information is a little vague here. We don't charge by the word....
It's all possible and could happen thoughout your life. We come across people we like and are attracted to. Stay focused on your relationship and just enjoy this other feeling as something that lets you know you're alive. You can't help how you feel but you can control your actions. If we acted on every impulse we had, it would a shallow existance..
Don't debate this stuff in your head either...we have a strange way of justifying our poor choices where we would condem others.
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