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Is it me or is my penis too small?

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Question - (3 July 2006) 7 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2008)
A male , *gga writes:

I am 15 and my penis is about 5 and a half to 6 inches long when erect. I did not see a problem with this until a boy in my class was laughing at somebody else for only having a 6 inch when erect and the other lads al joined in during the day. the lad did not seem bothered but it made me wonder if i was small. Also i get hard very easily and it is embarrasing when it happens but luckily i can getthem to go away quickly but it is a problem. also i think that i am cumming to quickly it only takes a few minutes but i fear that when a girl next does it it will be over in a few seconds let alone oral sex. Can anybody help me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008):

trust me, You dont even know the half of having a small penis. Mine is not even 3 inches with an erection. I hate it so... you are lucky to have one over 5 inches. I had a dream a week ago that one of my friend's ex wanted to have sex with me and was completely naked (she's 16) and she had a FLAWLESS body. After the foreplay, I gave up and backed off. I told her that it wasnt worth it and that she just wouldnt be satisfied and would not reach orgasm and so i turned my back and left, Heartbroken. So dont worry your size is fine. Ignore the assholes and do whatcha gotta do.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008):

hi im 14 years old and trust me my penis is much smaller than yours,6 inches is big for your age as mine is only 4 inces! the best thing to do is ignore them bullies.

if your still not sure on the size of your penis,why not try exercising it,this helps to enlarge it a little.or why not ask a close friend or a doctor to judge your penis!

any way from my point of u,ur penis is the right size for age so be proud of it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007):

I am a 15 year old girl, and I'm here to say that it really doesn't matter. An average-sized penis is a lot better sex-wise than a large one is.

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (3 July 2006):

Wendyg agony auntThats a pretty normal size!! They are probably laughing as thats the thing to do at that age, you dont really know much better lol Most guys will have the same sort of size penis, some are fatter some are thinner, some may indeed have a bigger one, but not that many! The guy with the bigger penis or so he seems to suggest probably hasnt, its all about ego and alot of men together just want to be the main man! Forget what others are on about its your penis not thiers and who cares about the size anyway!! you shouldnt its what god gave you so learn to love it!! the cumming to soon issue is something that you manage over time, your young its to be expected and as time goes on you can do thigns to overcome it, but dont go fretting about it already! If it does happen that you get with a girl try and get the over excitement outta the way first, pop off to the bathroom or something beforehand, and if it still happens, just get back up and start again.. its only natrual to be feeling this way but you are still young and have a lot to learn, but it all falls into place soon the more you worry the worse it will get. As for getting erections when you least expect or dont want to, its all part of growing up and discovering what you like... its possible to just get one walking across the road in young men its like a tuning process.. it happens to all men so dont worry about it. At least you know it all works! Relax a little and be yourself stop worrying about others and the size of their penis, they are not you. Just go with the flow on the erection and cumming too soon front it all comes with age and time and the more you fret the worse it will seem. its all perfectly normal!

take care x

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (3 July 2006):

Yos agony auntYou are exactly average size. ie, completely normal

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A female reader, Bev Conolly Australia +, writes (3 July 2006):

Bev Conolly agony auntThere's a twisted logic to the teasing kid at school and his jibes. If he puts down another guy for "only" having six inches, then the implication is that the teasing kid has much more. So he gets to claim credit for a big donger, without actually having to prove anything.

Just ignore it... and feel free to roll your eyes.

Overwhelmingly, the chances are that the teasing kid has less than six inches and feels insecure about it.

I've stated over and over (and over) that girls don't care about how big or long your willie is -- and they don't! Not if you're careful and considerate and adventurous in bed! -- so please don't fixate on the size of it. You have what you have, and unless you can make it bigger by wishing, it's staying whatever size it eventually gets to. Don't worry. Yours sounds fine.

If you're worried about climaxing too soon, then you can practice holding off for a few seconds when you're masturbating. When you think you're about to come, stop what you're doing and give yourself a moment or two to get back in control. Then have at it again. After a time, you'll be able to hold off for longer and longer intervals. Well, maybe not the first time with a woman (which will probably be pretty exciting), but eventually.

One thing you have on your side is that girls at your age don't have a lot of experience either, and won't be expecting a 2-hour marathon session. In fact, if you did go for ages, she'd probably wonder if she wasn't turning you on! When you get a chance to have sex with a woman, just do the best you can and (she wrote with a wink) remember: practice, practice, practice!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2006):

No 6 inches when erect isn't too small. The boy who was calling the other probably feels insecure about his own body and its functions and decided to pick on other people. So don't worry!

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