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writes: My fiance and I recently seperated from each other due to his drinking problems and multiple problems that have spawned from them. He acknowledges that he has a problem. I am madly in love with him, and despite his willingness to speak to anyone on the subject I know he loves me. Am I crazy to want to work out our relationship?
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (4 January 2006):
 Hi dearie, if he indeed wants to work on those problem and u do love him then perhaps u can give it a go and help him. see what happens?? its ur call really.
They are counselling and alcohol support groups he could go to that really does help. If he is serious about it and shows devotion,improvements will be noticeable soon.
Goodluck dear.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (4 January 2006):
I think you not crazy to want to work on the relationship, yet you ARE crazy to think that sticking with someone with an drinking addiction/problem and who has other issues, is crazy. If you want to stay with him, those issues should be worked out, otherwise you will just ge caught up and it will turn into a one sided relationship and you won't feel loved.
I think that if he has achknowledge he has a probelm, thats great he is half way there, but he also needs to seek professioaal help! You must get him into that. Sometimes the person might not want to, but sometimes draging them all the way there is what you have to do, its for THEIR own good!
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