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writes: I have just found out my bf of a year has cheated on me several times! He admitted it after I asked and asked. Also he constantly lies about his past relationships. I think he doesn't understand how bad his behaviour is. Should I forgive him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2006): I think you shouldn't forgive him, he has cheated on you. He is lieng and he will not tell you about his past relationships. He would tell you about it if he not have something to hide.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2006): listen, if he cheats on you one time, he might do it again, so I would like to say : Dont forgive him, if he cheats on you and if he lies to you then it means that he doesn't love you, and if he doesn't love you then why do you even care about him.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (4 January 2006):
 Definitley not!!! I cannot tell you how passionately I feel this is the answer in writing but please, get out now!!! Men like this never change and you're better than this. You deserve someone who respects you and loves you enough to tell you the truth about the past and be faithful to you now and forever. Get rid of this loser before he does you anymore damage and find someone who deserves you.
A relationship built on lies is not really a relationship at all. I know it's hard, you obviously love him, but have some self respect and leave him well alone. If he can't even see how bad this behaviour is, I don't know what I can say to that. I think it says it all!
Find the man you dreamed about when you were a little girl, the loyal, loving, caring man we all want to father our children. Sometimes you have to let go of something, as its doing you more harm than good.
Hope you make the right decision, keep me posted!!! Good luck
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