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writes:I met this guy a little over a year ago, we were together without the boyfriend/girlfriend titles and it wasn't until recently that I found out why. He's got a fiance! I had suspicions about it the whole time because she'd always send me messages and call me or tag him in pictures of the two of them, but I always ignored it. He says he'd rather be with me but I say if that was so true, then he would be. I know I should leave but something's holding me back. I love him, he does too..but I know I don't stand a chance against her. I'd say I'm a pretty good-looking girl and I've got a lot to offer a guy, yet I feel like he's the only person in this world who'd ever want to be with me and it scares me. I guess the reason I haven't left is because I'd rather have the little he gives than nothing at all? I don't know what to do :/ Should I just let it go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): i know its hard if you love someone but if hes not willing to give up his fiance then you should just call things off with him.
You can do better than a guy like that, the worst thing a woman can do is share a man with another especially if hes planning to marry this woman.
Find someone else who will want you and only you dont give him the satisfaction of having two women at the same time.
I hope this helps x
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 May 2009):
 "I love him, he does too.."
Gosh, how insighful of you. Shame he doesn't love, just himself but kudoos for spotting the flaw in this relationship.
Now act on it.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (6 May 2009):
 yeah you should leave. thats not a relationship. its all based on his cheating lies. hes going to be getting married. so if you two were to be together, would he do the same thing to you? or would you even know? did he tell you that he had a fiance or did she message you and tell you? a lot factors into whether hes good material or not, so you have think if hes someone you want to be w/or find someone who its only you and him, not three.
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