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Iam 19 yrs and i live in the United states.well i am single now but not for long hahah.i've always noticed that i was good at giving good advice,also what helps me along the way is the caring ,concerned,sympathetic person i am.I just hate to see people unhappy.when ever i help some one it makes me feel good inside.I am pretty much down to earth and funny aleaste that was what i've been told.

I like to listen music watch tv,go out ,socialize and read,some times i get curious so i do researches.One thing that annoys me is a cocky,self centerd kinda guy,gosh!i like totally hate that.

One of my philosophy in life is "nothing beats a failure unless he fails to try".this quote is of significance to me and i shall surely apply it to my life.

I want my best friends wife, I already had her friend

Q.   I need help.... I find my friend's wife attractive and I am afraid that I desire her.... We were watching a game few years ago and when our team scored,everybod was jumping, congrulating each other and me and her hugged each other...It was s...

A.   29 November 2009: Let me just say first of all get that girl out of your head.you need to be serious,i mean thats your BEST FRIEND'S WIFE!!! leave her alone there are plenty of other women out there.need i say more?... (read in full...)

Is it a bad sign if your boyfriend has pictures of his ex but not you?

Q.   Is it a bad sign that I am not in a good relationship if the guy I have been dating for almost 4 months still has pictures of his ex on his computer and facebook but none of me anywhere? I can deal with him having pictures of her on his computer but ...

A.   6 September 2009: that is a very very bad sign meaning he still has feelings for her and can't let go off his previous relationship and move on with you so you need to break it off with him.... (read in full...)

G/f spends weekends with her daughter & ex at his place

Q.   What I am troubled with is my girl friend seeing her daughter on the weekends. Kind of a long story,but her x husband has custody and she has visitation's on the weekends. Well, She has to have him X pick her up, She has no D.L because she is ...

A.   6 September 2009: You are in a difficult situation, but I think you should talk to your soon to be wife about how you feel about this. If she cares about your feelings and really wants to be with you she will understand.... (read in full...)

Boyfriend asks for 6 week break, is it over?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Boyfriend asks for a 6 week break and won't meet to talk about the definition of it or to talk about our feelings. Is it over? Should I date? He says he is much too emotionally sad and is feeling that our relationship doesn't wor...

A.   7 June 2009: Iam sorry to hear this,guess you both are going through one of life's obstacles.by what you wrote i strongly think he really needs a little space and adding would just make it much more stressing,please dont get me wrong i'm not saying your the ... (read in full...)

Am I straight, gay or bi?

Q.   I am not sure if i'm gay or bi or wat, i'm a 14 year old boy, and while i think girls are hot, i've never had sex, or even a relationship where we got as far as to make out. I have however had sex with a guy. However i was pitching, so now i don'...

A.   6 June 2009: hey kid these mix feelings comes from curiosity.your young and at these age you tend to try things you have never done.you have never had sex with females so you cant think your gay besides dont you think your a little too young to have such a ... (read in full...)

What could be the reason my girlfriend does not like oral sex?

Q.   My GF won't let me go down on her. We are 23, been dating for almost 2 years, and live together. I'm just trying to figure this out. I really want to go down on her, it is such a turn on, but she won't let me. Sometimes, rarely, she'll let me...

A.   2 June 2009: hey there,this is somthing females do go through at times.Iget the feling your not the reason why she is holding back in oral sex,infact i strongly believe its insecurity. Yes,if she feels that way then she will try to bloc you.I think you shou... (read in full...)

B/f 11 years older than me is abusive and I don't know how to get out of this relationship!

Q.   First off, I'm 15 going on 16 in a couple of days; my boyfriend is ELEVEN years older than me. We've been together for 7 months and I do really like him, but every single month I've tried to end it because he's made me feel like sh*t, I have rea...

A.   20 May 2009: Iam so sorry to hear that you're going through such a violent relationship like this,you are so young.that coward you call your boy needs to be put in his place! First of all,how dare him put his hands on you!like your his property,he ... (read in full...)

Had sex, but he doesn't call?

Q.   I had sex with a guy that i really like too soon and after our intercourse he has been distant,he dosnt call or visit and when i do call he dosnt answer so i stopped.I was hurt and i just cant stop thinking about him,i want to for get him but i dont ...

A.   1 May 2009: Thank you every one who took the time to help,i feel a great upliftment,i can tell myself now i will for get him and to be honest i'm starting to already.He was just a mistake,a mistake that i've learnt from.thanks again every body!:)... (read in full...)

He wants anal without a condom

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have recently had anal sex for the first time(with condom). It was great, i felt no pain at all and he enjoyed it alot. We are gonna do it again this weekend, but he wants to do it without a condom and i dont want to. What can i ...

A.   1 May 2009: Girl anal sex is not like vaginal sex,its different,You have to trust and feel comfortable with the person your going to do it with and for you to have all those insecure feelings that you get before you perform for the first time then havin that ... (read in full...)

Mind playing games?

Q.   i had unprotected sex 3 times in one day (april 13, 2009) with my partner. im am on the pill, however i missed my pill for that day. ive noticed sum symptoms but it could jus be my mind playing into the situation. it has been 17 days since the sex? ...

A.   30 April 2009: No.You can still take the test and girl please practice safe sex,guys somtimes can be DOGS!if you know what i mean.good luck!... (read in full...)

Me and my cousin are flirting a lot. I want to have sex with her...

Q.   okay i am 15 and my cousin is 14 and every time we're together i can't stop thinking about her and we always flirt every time we're together like at our family cottage me her and my sister slept in the top floor of our bunkhouse and me and her were ...

A.   29 April 2009: Ok we dont have to pretend that your seuxual feelings are unusual.there are many cases like yours but the truth is having sex with your cousin is WRONG,if you feel like having sex do it with some one who is not your family and safe sex always.... (read in full...)

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