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writes:hey im 19 years old and im pregnet me and my boyfriend of 4 years decided to get an abortion at first i didnt want to do it but i didnt want to throw a baby on him if he wassnt ready to hav it i was his choice to get an abortion since the day i told him....now that i respected his choice .... he tells me he wants to think about it because his mom had a dream about him having twin girls (shes a very spiritual person) she told him that she wants him to hav a baby with me .. thats all she wants and she will be happy ...and he said now he kinda wants itand he told me that his friends girl is having a baby and shes only 17 .....whats that supose to mean like that has nothing to do with us....well idk is he wanting the baby because of other people ... what should i do?
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (16 May 2010):
 You should do what you're comfortable doing, without expecting him to be in the picture. If he's making decisions based on what others tell him, then he doesn't know his own mind. And that means you can't depend on him.
If you think you can be a single mother, can and want to raise the child on your own, then by all means do so. But don't count an support from him.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (16 May 2010):
 He could change his mind after he gets past the ooh and ahh stage and realize that having a baby means less money less freedom less sex less everything. The good news is that it could strengthen your bond and jumpstart his life, forcing him to consider what he wants to do in life. You have to think about what you want despite what others say. His mom sounds like an open minded person and would help you along the way.
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