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Is he using me or her?

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Question - (30 November 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2010)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *atz4 writes:

my ex and i are split up for about 7 month now. He go a new girlfriend that stays with him. But call me in the night, wanting me to go to his place when she is not there, we still sleep together is he using me or her? I still love him what do i do?

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A female reader, MsVick United States +, writes (30 November 2010):

MsVick agony auntHe is using, lying and deceiving BOTH of you. Do you really want to be with a scumbag like this? Do yourself a favor, find a real man who will be truthful and not cheat.

Good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010):

~"AIN'T" THAT IN LOVE~

He's not using you. You're giving it to him.

~BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR BEHAVIOR AND EMOTIONS~

God Bless.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010):

This is a simple one. He's using you. End of story. Forget him. Sorry to be blunt way that's the way it is.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (30 November 2010):

CindyCares agony auntHe is using you. Well, probably he is using both , but at least the new one is the official girlfriend who gets to live with him and to share with him more than just sex.

What do you do ? Stop being his booty call ,stop going there at night, in fact stop all contacts and go on with your life.

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A male reader, soon567 United States +, writes (30 November 2010):

He's using you

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