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Is he too comfortable with me?

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Question - (22 January 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hello so my question is that normal ify boyfriend masturbate in front of me while were making love, cause i feel uncomftable looking to him ? we are ldr so im might been shy to express myself in bed with him

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A female reader, Euphoric29 Germany +, writes (22 January 2013):

Dear OP,

I am not sure I understood your question. When was he masturbating in front of you - while you were making love? How does that work? Do you mean, he masturbated in front of the computer, because you are in a long distance relationship?

Anyway, no matter if it's normal or not, if you feel uncomfortable, then tell him so clearly.

You have a right to feel whatever you feel and if this is too early, then you guys should wait with sexuality and first learn how to talk about these things.

Find out which degree of intimacy you would like to have, what would be okay for you to do.

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A female reader, Paula4u United Kingdom +, writes (22 January 2013):

Paula4u agony auntTake time out, If you feel uncomfortable, you are not with the right man. Time is what you need. Love and Sex are intertwined, is it sex you have or love, If you feel uncomfortable and he loves you, he would take the time to guide you.

Never go out of your comfort. Take your time.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (22 January 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntif you are shy to express yourself with him you are not ready to be sexual with him.

Have you asked him why he does it.

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