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*xcbabiegal
writes:me and my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years have just split up..naturally i am crushed as he has left me for another girl. but what i do not understand is that we live on an island and he is going out with someone who lives on the mainland even though he said himself that long distance relationships don't work..although he dumped me i think he is only on the rebound as he has told me that he is not in love with her and that maybe in the future we could get back together. but he treats her better than he ever treated me and i'm very upset as i have done nothing to not deserve his love and affection can you please read this and tell me if you agree with me that he is only rebounding from our broken relationship
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reader, sxcbabiegal +, writes (5 July 2008):
sxcbabiegal is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi thanks 4 everything. and you were right. it was a rebound they split up after only a month of being together and now he wants me back. just thought i'd let you all know
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (9 January 2008):
 Hi
He might well be on the rebound (very likely after such short time) but at the end of the day, he might just be wanting a bit of time out to experiment with someone new. If this is the case, why bother with him? He is probably too young to settle down right now. But long distance relationships at a young age are rarely able to last.
I would move on and put it down to the past.
Easier said than done i know, but you will meet many others yet.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 It is quite possible it is a rebound love because it happened so soon after your break up.
Initially , he may try to be a very nice guy to her but eventually , his own true self will surface.
Whatever, if he is the one for you , he will come back to you.Keep your fingers crossed.
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