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Is he leading me on? I really thought he liked me but I'm not so sure now

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Question - (29 July 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I honestly thought this guy liked me. He really doesn't like affection, but doesn't mind when I show him affection, and shows me much more affection than I've ever seen him show to anybody else. He flirts with me a lot. He compliments me a lot and notices small changes in my appearance. We see each other every day yet he still asks me to come meet him in the early hours to hang around. He gets sad when I'm upset, and hugs me and tries to make it alright again. Whenever we're watching a film or are led down together he cuddles me, and when I move away or sit up, opens his arms, makes grabby hands and a pouty face so I'll come back. A lot of people have said "You two should just get together already" or something along those lines.

So I was pretty sure he liked me :-) But then today I let my best friend use my laptop to go on Facebook. I use her Facebook to talk to him since I don't have my own account, and he does know it's me talking to him, not her. She knows I do this, too. She goes through our conversations a lot, but never really comments on them. But today I went online to see she'd been speaking to him.

My friend: Aw, can you two just get together already?

Him: Lmao!

My friend: You like her, right? Pinky promise I won't tell, and I'll delete this conversation afterwards XD

Him: You're off your box :)

My friend: So yeah then :')

And he didn't reply after that. I'm really confused. I really thought he liked me? Have I been lead on? He honestly doesn't treat any other girl like he treats me, I've been watching really closely to make sure :s

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A female reader, tiffanylovepandas United States +, writes (30 July 2011):

tiffanylovepandas agony auntThe conversation is a bit confusing.. But I really think he does like you. Don't worry about it so much. Take your time into getting closer to him if you think you're not so ready to trust him or ready to be in a relationship with him. Good luck!

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