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Is he just keeping me on the side, or is he really saying the truth?

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Question - (19 January 2012) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend has been broke up over a week now... we broke up cause he said he needed a break from the relationship cause he needs to focus on graduating high school. He works and goes to school and he said me being mad at him all the time for hanging out with his friends getting drunk and stuff was to much to handle. We have a 5 month old together, the problem is he still wants me to hang out with him and stay at his house NO SEX! Just to cuddle and stuff. But yet when I ask him if we are together then he says no cause we need time. He said that us hanging out will get us closer like we use to be. I asked him what if we find other people.

He said that he is trying to prevent that from happening by us seeing each other I stayed at his house last night he wanted me too. He wanted to cuddle but I didn't cause it didn't feel the same i turned over and he got close to me wrapped his arms around and held me real tight he kept whispering in my ear that he loves me i just said okay. Then he said please tell me you love me. I didn't, he cuddled with me the whole night. He held me really tight and I said let go and he said never, when I would move he would squeeze me harder! He said he felt comfortable and happy with me staying with him. I asked him why we couldn't be together yet and he said cause it would be a lot of pressure on him cause he will barley have time to see me. Does it sound like he has another girlfriend but he's keeping me on the side?

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