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anonymous
writes:I can't stop thinking about this guy from work. We work together in a project for 2 months now and we're really clicking. He's always there to help me whenever I need him and always makes sure I'm doing okay. He jokes around and acts really comfortable.I developed a liking towards him but I'm not sure if he likes me back. I believe it's just part of his nature to be friendly and polite to everyone. He became friends to one of my female coworkers before me, they were close but he treats me differently I can tell. He teases me when we're alone together but ignores me when there are other people. He randomly looks at me and I don't know how to respond and just throw him a silly face. We spend a lot of time together evern doing overtime together. He's always playful but sometimes I couldn't read him like he sounds offended when I joke around.Please help.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 September 2016):
 It should not matter to you if he likes you or not if you are married. You are on dangerous territory here. Leave this guy alone and go work on your marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, that's the thing I cannot do it. The first few weeks we have worked together, we went for a walk to get to know each other. I told him Im actually married. I think this is the deal breaker. Not that I'm unhappy with my marriage I'm just totally intrigued. There were guys in the past the will directly say they like me, l never tried to act on any of it. I'm just that type of person even before I got married who is comfortable being friends even with the opposite sex. This guy and I have a lot in common so we really click. i know asking this question doesnt make sense but Id rather know if he likes me then just move forward than sending me mixed signals.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (6 September 2016):
Why not ask him would he like to do something a day you are off work, go for a drink, a movie, lunch, whatever you like to do and see how he reacts.
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