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*unnermom
writes:I need help figuring out my situation. My bf of 6 years and I broke up last summer. He began dating someone else and I know they met before he broke up with me. We didn't see each other for a month, then it was every once in a while and now for the past 3 months we've been seeing each other once a week and things are really passionate. At first I wanted him back, now I'm not sure - but we still are great friends and have a lot of fun together. She has no idea this is going on. Why is he still coming back to me? The first year of a new relationship you should be head over heels in love. What do you all think?
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reader, Niikkii +, writes (27 April 2008):
 i guess he just wants to play with you guys, or probably he like you more than you think just that hes so used to being with you, && as hes getting older he also wants to experience things with other ladies, && feel like a pimp or idk. probably hes just really confussed you should just sit him down one of these days && talk to him abou this. and tell him that youre not going to keep on doing to this, because hey it might really hurt the other girl, you wouldnt want for a guy to cheat on you woudl you? dont do to others what you dont want happening to you!! && if you tell him that && he tells you that he will officially break up with the other girl to be with you then it was meant to be, but if he lets you go && doesnt care about you then now you know what he really was thinking he just wanted to play with you.
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reader, DearSteve  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 He’s taking advantage of the situation and he won’t be the one to get hurt. Consider his current girlfriend’s feelings for a moment. How would you feel is your boyfriend was sleeping with somebody behind your back? Remember: You’re the ‘other woman’ now, and you have a responsibility to stop him from hurting his current girlfriend in a big way. Once you’ve stopped sleeping with him you’ll see how much he really wants to be friends. He’ll show his true colours and from there you’ll be able to make an educated decision on how you want to take things forward.
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