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anonymous
writes:we hooked up on 2 occasions he spent the night we were drunk nothing happened just kissed and cuddled but i asked him to an event and he happily said yes, he then cancelled saying he was poorly and i never heard from him since. today i mailed him just casual hi hope your doing well not expecting a reply but an hour later he replied saying i had put a smile on him and hopefully we can catch up soon. is he just being polite or does he mean he wants to see me and what should i do ?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (25 September 2014):
 I'm with Cindy... i think that he's up for some fun and games when it suits him and nothing more.
Men that are interested LET YOU KNOW. he's just going along for the ride.
IF you want to you can text him back saying "great I look forward to hearing from you" and leave it at that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2014): You don't mention how long ago you last heard from the guy. A week, 2 weeks, more?
Anyway, perhaps he was poorly when he pulled out or perhaps nervous.
Why not arrange to meet up at some point and see what happens?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2014): The rule that I made for myself LNG time ago is if ever feel confused with a guys behavor towards me the answer is NO, he is not interested. At times I was mistaken, but 99% it was the case. A guy who is interested in you will act differently. Even if he WAS sick which I doubt, he would still make an effort in a next week to meet up with you and have a date. Kissing mean nothing or it mainly mean that one day he will hook up with you IF he doesn't have to make an effort.
I would just forget about him and not wait for any action. I learned the lesson long ago and my life became much easier after that.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (25 September 2014):
 Do nothing. You have done your part, now let him do his. If he is interested he'll follow up you and ask you out .
I would not be holding my breath though. Personally, I find it a meaningful coincidence that he felt poorly ,and rescheduled when it was for a social event at an apponted time, - and not just a casual, spur of the moment hook up.
It could be that he'd be cool with the second, but not with the first.
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