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Is he crushing on me or just being super friendly?

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Question - (26 May 2015) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2015)
A female United States age 36-40, *ysticfemale12 writes:

There’s this guy I used to work with, I now work for another company but in the same building and the same floor as the guy does, well, he passes by my office everyday and takes the stairs when there’s an elevator he could take that’s even closer to the door way, well I notice how he walks around like he’s the shyt…so one day he was getting on the elevator and he was like u comin I said yes, so he holds the door for me, I said thank you….I in turn ask do you have a gf, he smiles at me and says no……I in turn say I see why..

he says why….I said cus you are a cocky pompous jack azz who thinks he is all that and a bag of chips cuz he’s cute….dude said nothing, but put his head down and started smiling at me…but still said nothing and now ever since then he makes sure he sees me everyday in some fashion just to say hi…..he’ll tap my door to get my attention and or he’ll stick his head in the doorway with this big ol smile on his face and say HEY…..some think we are dating but we arent…..anyway is he crushin on me or just being very friendly? he passes by my office everyday and says hi in the morning and bye in the evening……..

well on 05/20/2015 I wrote on a piece of paper me and u lunch, with my number and I gave it too him, and he started smiling at me and then he laughed and said we’ll see…still smiling at me ….his eyes look surprised….and then I left my office to go outside and he seen me and he said u runnin away already smiling at me..i said no I have 2 run an errand….he said ok, enjoy…… and he watched me get on the elevator….

now we are talking almost everyday and getting to know each other a whole lot better, we haven't went on a date yet...he has a child, he is 41, im 31....but im questioning a pic I seen on facebook of him a female....he said he didn't have a gf, but the pic is dated 12/16/2014.......and the comments suggest that's his gf in the pic, should I confront him or crush on someone else?

sorry its so long, im very detail oriented

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2015):

well I went on the womans page and my crush is tagged as engaged, now he would of had to confirm that in order to be tagged am I correct? or no....when I clicked his name, it takes me back to his page..... they have been engaged since 2013....well, if hes flirting with me, he obviously isn't happy with her.....but yeah im not going to continue anything

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2015):

thanks for your answer..im questioning a pic I seen on facebook of him and a female....he said he didn't have a gf, but the pic is dated 12/16/2014.......and the comments suggest that's his gf in the pic, should I confront him ..or let it go and keep what we have going

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2015):

I think he's totally crushing on you! Unless..he acts like that to everyone else.. But if not then you should just make a move! If he does like you, you'll be really happy later!

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