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Is he cheating, or is it all in my mind?

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Question - (17 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2010)
A female United States age 51-59, *erzyz gurl writes:

when i met my now husband..he was into all the online *women*...said it was because he was in a bad relationship at the time..we got together ..and when we was apart ..and i was pregnant with his child..he did it again said he was *lonely*..i gave him a chance..n we got married...now...well..we lost our child and are trying ...or so he says he wants to..but then the sex isnt happening..to try we know we have to relaly go for it im getting no younger and etc etc...my question is...is he cheating because he doesnt want to come near me? is he upto his old tricks? is he just stressed with work ( he says its that)..am i just thinking he hasne changed?

i mean we did try last month..sex every day 8 days in a row..is it just the pressure of trying with him?..we miss a day or two ..i get to thinking hes upto no good..he says hes just tired or needs a day off..but he knows from the doctor theres just a limited time we can get pregnant..

am i making any sense?any help really appreciated people.

its been a tough year last year anyways..i lost my uncle my mum and the baby within 6 months..then got married in the nov..and my daughters due in 2 weeks...am i just on overload and imagining things?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 March 2010):

He could be suffering from depression and not want to say anything to you. But if he has been online before, then there is a chance he is up to his old tricks. But you need more facts before you can confront him, so dig deeper and see what you find.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010):

i meant...my daughters babys due in 2 weeks .*

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