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writes:can a man give you flirting jester an just be friendly ? flirting jester are winking stareing into your eyes hugging you once in awhile smile at you an putting his hands on your shoulder . have a man that i see a few times in the month that does this to me . just need a little advice to help sort this out .thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much an i do agree with this . i am going to do this next time i see him . thanks again for your help
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reader, DerbyGirl19  +, writes (26 December 2010):
There is a thin line between touchy-feely and genuinely interested and it varies from person to person. A lot of people are so confident in themselves and among the people around them that they act in such a way. I have many male and female friends who act that way, for a few the fact that they are married doesn't change it.So these gestures could be innocent and meant in a friendly way. The way to find out if they're not is your response. If you're confident enough then return the gestures, show a subtle interest in him. If his behavior suddenly stalls, then that might be because he has realised he's given the wrong impression. If he responds positively to your actions, however, its all go from there.
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (26 December 2010):
 Sounds a little too familiar to me, bit the only way to know his intentions is to get to know him. Perhaps have lunch or a quick chat or two on your break.
There is nothing definite that I can see other than he feels he has a connection with you.... whether for romance or friendship who knows...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe will come by and wink at me, and also if i am passing him, he winks then . last time he came over and hugged me. And it was a cheek to cheek hug .we were at a meeting and he came over and kept looking me in the eyes . i just do not know how to take him he never try to ask me out .but one time while i was sitting down he came over an place his hands on my shoulder . i think he nice an i would like to know more about him .but we have little time to talk .
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (25 December 2010):
My guess is probably not. You don't mention in what context this occurs, so it is hard to tell. Either he is a touchy-feely type or he is trying to send signals to you that he is interested in you.
If you don't appreciate his advances, simply tell / ask him not to touch you. He should get the message if he has any class.
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