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All advice is useful. It broadens your view on a specific matter and provides insight that would be impossible to find yourself. Even if you later decide not to follow someone's advice or that that advice wasn't the wisest, you are no worse off for having listened to it. That is exactly why I try to apply this motto to my own problems: If in doubt, ask.

I live in Derby, United Kingdom and I'm a nineteen-year-old student. I have been with my boyfriend for over three years. That may sound like an inexperienced profile but I have eyes, ears, a mouth and a fully operational brain. If you have those, then you can have an opinion. I would be ashamed of myself for judging people and only want to offer what help I can. Feel free to message me anytime :)

Is he being flirtatious or just friendly?

Q.   can a man give you flirting jester an just be friendly ? flirting jester are winking stareing into your eyes hugging you once in awhile smile at you an putting his hands on your shoulder . have a man that i see a few times in the month that doe...

A.   26 December 2010: There is a thin line between touchy-feely and genuinely interested and it varies from person to person. A lot of people are so confident in themselves and among the people around them that they act in such a way. I have many male and female friends ... (read in full...)

We broke up because of my insecurities, now he just wants to be friends

Q.   Well...my ex and i have been together for 3 yrs. we were goign to get engaged and it ended up all falling apart because of my insecurities. after this i didnt talk to him for 6 months, never once did i call or contact. he would message and stuff. ...

A.   26 December 2010: It sounds like you've already come to a decision on your own. I think it's a good idea to attempt a friendship with this man. He is obviously someone you have a connection to, so if you still have feelings for him and he says there is a chance of ... (read in full...)

How can I ever be appreciated for who I am, by him? Instead his ex was always better

Q.   Hi, I've been with my bf for over a year now, and he often talks about the good old times with his ex. Well the thing is, he used to be quite attractive when he was young. Girls would do a lot of things just to be with him. He mentioned a lot of t...

A.   26 December 2010: Special moments cannot be bought, they are made through a connection between two people who care about each other. It sounds like you need to use some tough love. At the end of the day, you are not his ex and you never will be. That is NOT a ba... (read in full...)

If my Mum found out she would go mad at my flirty texting sister.

Q.   I really need help really really fast. okay my sister is texting this guy on facebook and they hardly know each other. he's way too young for her and she's way too old! She flirts with everyone guy. I'm so ashamed of her. If mum found out she woul...

A.   26 December 2010: You need to talk to your sister about this. Let her know that you're worried about her and that this younger man's ideas are freaking you out a little. I'm assuming this is an older sister that you're talking about so if he is "way too young for ... (read in full...)

He treated me like a queen, but I wasn't ready. He said no contact, but I want him back

Q.   So, here is the situation. A couple years ago, I went out with a guy who pretty much used me for my money. That relationship lasted nine months. It took me awhile to get over it, but when I finally did, I met someone else, and he was amazing to ...

A.   26 December 2010: No contact. So he has disappeared off the face of the earth, he has no phone, no e-mail, no facebook/twitter/myspace and no home address. If the above isn't true then I would suggest screwing up that "no contact basis" and throwing it out ... (read in full...)

Does he really love me, or was he just drunk?

Q.   I honestly dont know what to believe. So the guy i like and he likes me back called me the other night and he was all like ''wassup baby.'' We just talked for a while and i knew something was wrong. So i told him i'd call back later. So he started ...

A.   25 December 2010: It is true that a lot of men reveal feelings while influenced by alcohol that they wouldn't have while sober. Drinking can unlock the emotional side of some men as the alcohol gives them 'Dutch Courage'. It's the same with a lot of women too. T... (read in full...)

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